Wraps, Slings, Carriers, Oh My! How to Pick Your New Favorite Parenting Gadget

 

Wraps, Slings, & Carriers Oh My! How to Pick Your New Favorite Parenting Gadget A couple of weeks ago I talked about why babywearing should be kicked out of the crunchy moms category.

ALL parents can benefit from carrying their baby once in a while.

Sometimes it’s about the baby.

I babywear to soothe King Crankpants during the dreaded “witching hours” of 6-9pm.  

Sometimes it’s about the parents.

Hands.  They’re nice.  

The obvious problem here is choosing which carrier to buy.  

There are several styles of baby carriers, and each of those styles has hundreds of brands…and then you have to choose on a fabric….  It’s a classic case of “Can’t see the forest for the trees.”

Today’s post is going to help you zoom back to see the big picture.

  1. We will highlight the 5 types of carriers.
  2. We will then narrow down the top-reviewed brands for those styles.
  3. We leave you with links to choose the features and fabrics that fit your family best.

But first, let me go over some “ground rules” when it comes to making a smart overall purchase.

Smart Buying Tips for Baby Carriers

Make sure the one you’re choosing is machine washable.  All of the major brands are, but if you’re going the Etsy route, you’ll want to triple check.

  1. Don’t be afraid to move beyond “basic black”.  Pick one you think is pretty, after all this is a tool and an accessory!
  2. Many parents will purchase more than one type of carrier, depending on the age of their baby.  Don’t get overwhelmed thinking this is it.  Pick for your current situation.  You can always borrow a friend’s or purchase a different style later on.
  3. Check the return policy and keep the receipt.  Nothing is worse than using it for a few days, only to realize it’s not a good fit and you can’t return it.
  4. Know thy recalls.  You don’t want to be using a sling or carrier that was recalled as a fall hazard.  Lucky you! I offer monthly baby recall alerts as a bonus to subscribers.  (Sign up here, it’s absolutely worth it.)

The Stretchy Wrap Carrier

This carrier is a long piece of fabric that is tied around your body, creating a pocket and straps and securing the baby to your chest.

With ALL newborn carriers, it’s vital that you occasionally check your baby’s position to make sure that he has space to breathe in between the wrap and your body.  You want it tight enough that he doesn’t fall, but not so tight that he cannot find a clear breathing spot.

Pros of the Stretchy Wrap

  • Very cozy – gives a “swaddle” feel
  • Best for newborns – 6 months (under 20 lbs)
  • Can be used with toddlers on the hip
  • Distributes the weight very well over your entire torso, so it won’t strain a sore shoulder or weak back
  • Also hides the “mommy tummy” paunch well!

Cons of the Stretchy Wrap

  • There’s a learning curve to get the hang of the tie.  Use the brand instructions, youtube videos, and a mirror for practice.
  • It’s not fast to put on or take off.
  • If you want to use it while out of the house, be sure to put it on at home first.  It’s not easy to do in the car or public bathroom, where some of the fabric may touch the floor.  (In other words, wrap first, coat second.)

The Best Brands for Stretchy Wraps http://www.incredibleinfant.com

1.  The K’Tan Wrap

This wrap does not involve any tying, making it the easiest stretchy wrap to learn to use.  That said, you will want to be careful with your sizing.  It may shrink slightly in the dryer.  It will eventually stretch out again, but it’s generally recommended that you air-dry it.  See more review details.  (Also comes in a lightweight mesh fabric.)

2.  The Boba Wrap

The Boba Wrap has been reported to have a stretchier fabric than the Moby (below).  It my also be uncomfortable in warmer climates.  It ties in the front, making it more comfortable to sit.  See more review details.  

3.  The Moby Wrap Original

Over 700 parents gave this a five-star rating.  It does take practice in the mirror to get it right, so don’t be discouraged when you open up a long piece of fabric!  This is a very comfortable wrap for plus-sized or well-endowed moms.  The fabric is a tad on the heavier side, so if you are in a warmer climate you may want to choose a different brand with a more breathable fabric.  See more review details.  

The Pouch Carrier

These carriers are a tube of cloth that you fold and put on like a homecoming queen sash, opening up a pocket for you to put your baby in.  You can use them to carry in the front or the hip, but it really shines as a hip carrier.

Pros of the Pouch Carrier

  • Quick and easy to put on
  • Easy to fit into the diaper bag when not using
  • Very cute gender-neutral patterns for Dad
  • If baby falls asleep, it’s easy to take it off without waking him

Cons of the Pouch Carrier

  • Not as supportive for heavier babies or for longer periods of babywearing.
  • You have to be careful about sizing it correctly to your body.  (Do measure!)
  • All the weight is balanced on the shoulder, so if you have chronic shoulder/back issues you’ll want to pass on this style.

The Best Brands for the Pouch Carrier - http://www.incredibleinfant.com

1.  Hotslings Pouch Carrier

Hotslings is a very light material, making it a good choice for warmer climates.  Some parents have complained that it’s hard to find the right size, so break out the measuring tape and then keep the receipt, just in case.  See more review details.

2.  Peanut Shell Pouch Carrier

The Peanut Shell Pouch Carrier is recommended for babies 6 to 26 pounds.  It is great for the cradle hold or the hip carry, but not so much for babies who have reflux and need to be carried upright.  Very easy to pull on and off and has a soft, breathable fabric. See more review details. 

Be careful of the Seven Slings brand of pouch carrier. Inexpensive slings are often made of inexpensive materials, which can lead to back trouble.  That said, if you have had a positive experience with Seven Slings, I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

The Ring Sling

This is a close sister to the Pouch Carrier, the difference is that this sling has a ring.  (I do love to point out the obvious…)

A strip of fabric is connected to a ring that you wear in “corsage position” on your shoulder, allowing you to adjust the pouch of fabric to fit you perfectly, every time.

Pros of the Ring Sling

  • It’s very quick to put on.
  • The position makes this a great sling to breastfeed in
  • Wide variety of fabrics to choose, from water fabrics to linen to silk).
  • Highly adjustable to fit every size and body type

Cons of the Ring Sling

  • There is a learning curve on how to adjust it properly.
  • The rings can sometimes slide down and  make the baby’s pouch seem smaller than it should.
  • You’ll probably want to watch the instructional video that your chosen brand offers to make sure you’re getting it right.

The Best Brands for the Ring Sling http://www.incredibleinfant.com

1. Sakura Bloom Ring Sling

This sling is made from über comfortable Belgian linen. (Which also makes it more expensive.) It’s designed to hold babies from newborn to 35 lbs.  Read more review details. 

2.  Comfy Joey Ring Sling

Comfy Joey has two types or ring slings – a dry cloth version, and mesh version that’s perfect for wet carrying, since it dries quickly. They are sold exclusively at the Comfy Joey website here.  Be careful with your sizing, though!  They do not accept returns or exchanges.  

3.  Maya Wrap Ring Sling

The Maya Wrap ring sling actually has a little pocket with a zipper, a unique and useful feature.  The padded version (linked here) offers a small pad on the shoulder, which is nice.  Who’s going to say no to more padding?  See more review details.  

A word of caution… there are a lot of Etsy shops selling Ring Slings.  Read the reviews carefully before buying! (And check their return policy.)  Some are great, while others are subpar.

The Mei Tai Carrier

This is an Asian-inspired carrier (not a delicious alcoholic drink – that’s Mai Tai) consisting of a rectangular body and four straps of fabric that tie around your waist and then tie on the shoulder straps.

Pros of the Mei Tai Carrier

  • Adjustable for different sized (or gender) caregivers.
  • Can be used for front, back, and hip carries.
  • Several petite mothers shared this style felt more comfortable than the Buckle Carriers.
  • Works for a newborn all the way through toddlerdom

Cons of the Mei Tai Carrier

  • Tying the longer straps can be cumbersome.  You may need a helper’s hands until you get the hang of it.
  • The 3-5 month age can be tricky, since they are too big to curl their legs in, but too small to spread their legs outside. (Rolling a receiving blanket under baby’s knees can help with this.)

The Best Brands for the Mei Tai Carrier - http://www.incredibleinfant.com

1.  Infantino Sash Mei Tai Carrier

The Infantino Sash design has a detachable hood for baby, which is a helpful perk.  The straps are extra wide and padded to help distribute the weight and support the back.  It’s also much less expensive than most mei tai style carriers.  See more review details.  

2.  Chimparoo Mei Tai Carrier

The Chimparoo uses a very soft fabric, which is different than other mei tai style brands, which tend to prefer a stiffer blend.  Because of this, it can feel more like a wrap than a carrier, molding the baby around the carrier’s body, rather than holding against. See more review details. 

3.  Baby Hawk Mei Tai Carrier

This style carrier works on the front or back, baby facing inwards both ways.  It will fit women up to size 20/22 and men up to XXL.  They are stylishly reversible and 100% cotton. Visit their website. 

The Buckle Carrier

This type of carrier is also known as the “Soft Structured Carrier” or SSC.  It’s extremely popular, primarily because it’s very easy to put on and can be used past the 2nd birthday.

Pros of the Buckle Carrier

  • Extremely easy to use – just put baby in and buckle.
  • Great for all ages, and especially comfortable for active babies and toddlers.
  • Easily adjusted for quick switches from mom to dad (or vice versa).
  • A wide variety of colors and patterns to choose from.
  • Many brands are designed to allow for front/back/hip carries, but not all, so check the description carefully if you want all three options.

Cons of the Buckle Carrier

  • Not everyone likes buckles.
  • Very petite parents (5′ and 100lbs or smaller) may find it difficult to fit well into this style.
  • Has a similar “awkward stage” for 3-5 month old babies, similar to the Mei Tai carrier.  Most brands come with inserts to help with this stage.

The Best Brands for Buckle Carriers - http://www.incredibleinfant.com

 1.  Ergo Original Baby Carrier 

A wide band across the belly provides additional back support.  You can use it to carry on the front, back, and hip.  It’s easily adjustable for all sizes and shapes.  Also has a hood for baby, for discreet public nursing.  This is not a forward-facing carrier.  Good for newborn – 45 lbs (20kg) See more review details. 

The Ergo 360 (different than the one reviewed above) allows baby to face forward and backward.  The not-so-good part, though, is that it has very noisy velcro.  Translation: adjust and watch any snoozing abruptly end. 

2.  Beco Baby Carrier

This carrier allows for front facing in, front facing out (not available with Ergo), back and hip carries. Use for newborns – 35 lbs (16 kg).  You can also choose a variety of patterned fabrics.  It’s easy to buckle up by yourself. See more review details. 

3.  Lillebaby Complete Carrier

This carrier is made with organic fabric that’s very lightweight and breathable for summer wearing.  Baby can face in or out on the front, hip or back.  No infant insert is required for newborns.  Has a lumbar support attachment to help relieve back pressure.  The hood (for nursing in public) is detachable.  Men of all sizes have found this carrier comfortable.  See more review details.

Which Carrier Do You Prefer?

I’d love to hear about the carriers you’ve used.

  • What styles have you tried?
  • Which did you love/hate?
  • Do you have different carriers for different purposes?
  • Does your husband use the same carrier?  Or do you have “his” and “hers” styles that seem to work better?

I can’t wait to hear about your experiences!


Meet Heather Taylor

Heather Taylor

Heather is the Chief Encouragement Officer here at Incredible Infant and has been writing and encouraging parents online since 2007.  She's certified in baby sleep coaching (yes, that's a real thing), has served as an Expert Parenting Panelist for numerous events, and has been a featured writer on blogs like DaveRamsey.com, SimpleKids.net, My Kid's Adventures, Cafe Mom, and others.  If it's 2am and you're desperate to read SOMETHING, click here for all her darkest secrets, including why she really shouldn't be allowed to blog.  


 

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  1. This is a super informative article. My baby is 6 months & we have been wearing her since she was born. We started with a Moby wrap, which we didn’t love, but used for a couple weeks until I found Solly Baby Wrap. I am obsessed with this wrap! It’s lighter fabric, & fold up into a small pouch which is attached to the end of the wrap. It comes in trendy colors/patterns & is made by a mother (I love supporting small businesses!). All in all I would recommend the Solly wrap over the Moby in a heartbeat! We also love our Ergo for our many outdoor adventures. I recently scored a Sakura Bloom ring sling, I am beginning to get the hang of. I cNnot wait to transition our little girl to a hip carry so she can be more involved in what I’m doing. Again, thanks for the informative article Heather!

  2. Before my son was born, we actually went out and bought a Mamas&Papas pod carrier (which looked really easy to use and practical).  After using it about 10 times, I hung it up in the closet never to be used again as I was never able to find a comfortable way of putting it on after much adjusting.

    I figured babywearing wasn’t for me.  Then, my son hit 3 months of age and became very fussy/gassy.  I figured that I may as well look in to wearing him again.

    I remember thinking that wraps were scary looking so, after a lot of research, I went out to buy a Mei Tai…only to find out there were no more in stock :(.  I ended up buying a stretchy wrap instead because that’s what was left.

    I didn’t find the learning curve to be too bad.  I bought a Maman Kangourou stretchy wrap and loved it from the getgo.  A few months later, I ended up buying a ring sling from Sleeping Baby Productions and then as my son got older and heavier, I invested in a Storchenwiege woven wrap.  I have found the woven to be the hardest to learn so far, but also the most flexible (as you can use from newborn to child and you can do front carries, side carries and back carries).

    I love the stretchy for when I have errands that require lots of stops because it’s easy to get my baby in and out without having to untie.

    I usually use my ring sling at home when I have to get stuff done around the house and the baby wants to be held.

    The woven is great for longer wear (ie: going out for long walks) and for back carries (though I’m still working on learning to do that properly) and it still works great for wearing my toddler for long periods of time.

  3. You forgot woven wraps! Similar pros and cons to stretchies, but much more versatile and can be used for heavy toddlers and even pre-schoolers. And they’re so pretty.

    Other than that, great article. I love babywearing and more people should know how useful and fun it is.

  4. I wore my daughter from the time she was 8weeks. until she was about 4months (she’s 10months now). I wore her for all of her naps because prior she would sleep for 1 hour max. everyday due to reflux. After she started to get more sleep in the carrier and started growing at a good rate I hired a sleep trainer to help her sleep in her bed.

    I’ve got 3 different carriers that I use for different things. I have a ring sling which I use to breastfeed and work at the same time. I have a hugabub (similar to a moby, but Australian brand) which I use for forward face carrying or when my ergo is in the wash. And I have my ergo which I use to give my daughter a nap when we’re out. It’s also great for grocery shopping or when you need to do chores like vacuuming (she’s scared of the vacuum when she isn’t held).

    A lot of people will be critical when you wear your baby and tell you that you’re spoiling them. It normally comes from people who haven’t raised a child for years or someone who has never had a child. Just keep reminding yourself that you’re the one who sees your baby everyday and know what’s best for her.

  5. Melissa says:

    My partner and I have been loving the Ergo 360 for our son. It is my husband’s favorite way to hold and bond with him. I wanted to note that it does have s huge Velcro waist, but you can remove the baby without using the Velcro, because you unclasp the shoulder straps to remove the baby. To take off the waist, we leave the room due to the noise, but usually the baby is in the carrier for the full nap.

    • Thanks for adding that Melissa! It’s very helpful to know. Thanks for helping this article be as helpful as possible, I really appreciate it! xo

  6. I LOVE wearing my babies!! I have tried about 8 or 9 different carriers over the years with my 3 littles. My favorite for newborns is the Moby wrap. My favorite carrier hands down is my Boba. I wish I would have discovered it with my first instead of my last. I wear my baby 50% of the day probably. He’s 9 months and about 24 lbs. The Boba is always comfortable to wear. I’m about 5’5″. It also has a cell phone pocket and a place to put debit cards making trips into the store diaper bag free.

  7. I’ve used lots of different carriers over the years but have really loved the Infantino Mei tai with my youngest. It’s my go to carrier because it’s so versatile. I’ve worn her for hours on my back quite comfortably.

    I like having multiple options in my babywearing arsenal since it’s a big part of our daily life. I keep a Seven sling in my diaper bag because it can also double as a changing pad. It’s not a bad option for quick carries. One trick with it is to flip the shoulder ,which draws baby closer to you and makes it a lot more comfortable. Since it’s just fabric and you don’t have to worry about extreme temperatures damaging it, it’s the perfect carrier to throw in your trunk for emergencies.

    Out of all the carriers you mentioned, i think the Infantino Mei tai is probably the best bang for your buck. It’s very affordable and oh so versatile. I use mine daily with my 1 year old. I don’t know how I would get anything done without it.

  8. Any thoughts on twin carriers? I’ve read about the TwinGo, Twintrexx/twintrexx2 and Twingaro. I’ve read some people just use 2 Ergos instead…Thanks!

    • Danielle Miller says:

      Tara,

      I checked in with Rachael (who did our research for this article). She is very knowledgable about any and all things used to (safely) carry a baby. 🙂 She said Twingaroo! Hope that helps!

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